I AM GETTING DIVORCED

Those words still seem so unreal to me. I got married for life. After 20 plus years of wanting to believe that everything was great I’m joining the 50 percent club. Through years of frustration and therapy I realized that my marriage was impossible to save. I chose to save myself. I had to get passed the stigma of what divorce represented in my mind to prepare myself for all of the new possibilities.

Even though I’m in the middle of one of the hardest situations I have ever experienced, I am learning and growing. I have fallen in love with me again and I like this feeling. The highs give me a renewed energy and the lows cause me to dive deeply into myself. This process is shaping me for the new life that is on the way. I can’t help but feel optimistic about it all. What I do know is that the work is hard but so very worth it. I AM WORTH IT.

Ali M

When I started Alimonia Life I was unsure of the direction, I just knew that I wanted to
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